Yes, I am divorced, but my life is yet not over!

“Hey Ankita, why did you not tell me you were getting divorce? Do you know how I got to know? At the office, I overheard Rohan and Harshit, teasing Ashok about it and telling him, how lucky he is, and how he can hit other women now. They werealso planningng a trip to Bangkok. You know how bad I felt about you. Here you are, looking all depressed and dejected, where as, your ex-husband is planning to have the time of his life. I am feeling very sorry for you.”

Ankita did not say anything, but she was exhausted of hearing the same things over and over again. She was weary of knowing, how sorry her relatives were about the fact that her husband left her, or may be they were just pretending they were sorry. She gave them a shit load of stuff to gossip about. They hardly knew the truth and she knew they hardly cared. But they were all pitiful and grievous about her situation.

She did not want her parents to think her life was over, or how difficult it was for them, to find such a nice groom for her, or how impatient this generation is, who can not stand little arguments, and are ready to cut off ties with their spouse, at the drop of a hat. She was tired of all this. It has been more than a month now, and all she heard was how sorry everyone was for her.

May be they all wanted her to believe, her life was over. That being divorced was the end of the world for her. That she has lost her only chance to be happy, by seperating from her husband. No body wanted to know how she felt. No body wanted to know about her years and years of agony in that relationship, just because she could not become a mother. No body wanted to know how her husband or her in-laws treated her, even though she was the Vice President of a multinational, and earned more than her husband. All that mattered was that she could not give birth to their heir and that was enough to make her life miserable.

Her so called friends, family and relatives, none of them told her that it was a good decision. Everyone wanted her to feel sorry for herself and when ever any one met her, they made sure she felt that way.

She sometimes wondered if people forgot, she has emotions and if she is divorced, does not mean she is not human.

She stopped going out to weddings or parties, she stopped taking calls of her own parents, she had restrained herself to her house now. She was working from home for almost a month now and today was her first day she went back to office and people are yet not done sympathizing with her.

But that was it. She had been pondering over a thought for a long time now and it was time to get it done. She typed her resignation letter and went straight home. She packed her bags. Booked the tickets and was ready to go. She was never sure of anything more than this all her life. She decided to take a sabbatical and travel to all the places she always wanted to see. She wanted to walk around the beaches and stroll in the best of art galleries. She wanted to see all the wonders of the world. She wanted to meet new people and open her soul and set herself free from all the ties, away from the people who wanted her to stay miserable for life.

She had been planning her start-up for a long time, but was never sure of it. Now she was. She had investors who liked her idea and she was going to contact them, as soon she is back from her trip.

It was her life. No one else has the right to ruin it. She never needed a man to make her happy and she can not allow a man to make her life gloomy forever.

It is just one life, and she was still young. She can always restart. But love was not on her mind right now. Right now all she wanted, was to fly away to the unknown world full of adventure and she knew a new life was waiting for her. A better life, all she had to do was give it a chance.

Hey lovely readers, a big virtual hug to all of you, for all the love you have showered over me. I can not be anymore grateful. Thank you to each and everyone of you. If you like what you just read, make sure you share it with your friends, like it and leave your precious comments down under. Also don’t forget to follow me here, my Facebook page and Instagram. You can find me by just typing ‘That middle class girl’. Until next time XOXO.

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I am a mother by choice and a writer by chance. I love to read, write, dance, sing, paint, cook, you can say I am a jack of many traits but master of none. I am a fashion lover, food lover, book lover, nature lover. I love travels more than the destinations. My life is an open book. My looks are a little decieving, I am a very simple person at heart, but may not look it. I love my kids, my family and I live for them. You can find me on Facebook page : that middle class girl. You can also find me on Instagram by the same name.

4 thoughts on “Yes, I am divorced, but my life is yet not over!”

  1. Thank you for sharing. Divorce was a blessing and one of the best things that ever happened to me. I was freed from abuse and manipulation and I could not be more grateful. The problem was people were not comfortable with me being breaking the silence. I played the role for everyone long enough. They made up lies and hateful slander to keep me from another man, to incapacitate me so that my job options would be limited, to isolate me and my children. What they did not know is that I have the One who is more than life to me. It has been hard on the children and I with the harassment but it is worth it. We have a hope that cannot be extinguished. One day we will wake up and wonder where all our attackers have gone. Hope has a home in our hearts!

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      1. It has only been hard because of the monkeys, otherwise only tears have been of joy concerning divorce. It has been 4 years and counting. Hoping to meet genuine friends and push forward!

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  2. You written it beautifully…

    “Her so called friends, family and relatives, none of them told her that it was a good decision. ”

    How can those friends, family and relatives appreciate her decision as they are somewhere responsible in the society for this kind of happening.

    In society marriage represents that one can possess other, one specific person is given to other for using lifetime whenever needed. It makes persons as a thing and once a person is considered as thing it is being possessed by other. But the reality no one can be happy in this planet if his/her freedom is taken over by other…..

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